ººLove and Relationshipºº
Don is right, I dont know lots of sh*t. "I'm a trendy geek whose making the best out of everything bad because I cant choose." Just one thing to tell Don: You are still young too, dont be too absolute.
I dont know everything, i dont think you do. At least, I know.
I'm here to make a little distinction: With love comes relationship. Yeah, They're undeniably intertwined and inseparable. But some people just try to have one of them unknowningly, relationship.
True Love is everything, including the aspect relationship. The form that has true mutual concern, true feelings involved.
True Relationship is more a cultivated achievement in a love. Where two has true mutual understanding, are without ego, with compromise, is sacrificial and non-conditional, of true maturity, and even the sacred sex. I dont mean these characteristics exist all time, they may seem to fade off, there can be quarrels and disputes, but they will prevail.
Dont try to put a time frame or sequence to love and relationship, they happen indefinitely and freely.
Nonetheless, there are people that ignorant to be oblivion to all these and be stubborn still. Today, in Singapore, most relationships are an "a" away from realtionship. It's just not real. Casting doubts onto the one you "love", holding onto your ego, refusing to lift the stern on your face, on and on. This is not love. This is not even relationship. Such terms are often misused by teens, like the terms: Friends, mature, sorry. "I love you" to some is just eight letters with two spaces in between. How insulting and hurting and devastating and agitating.
No! It is all of me when I mean really, really mean it.
Love is not only about the two person involved, it is not only about you, it is not only about him/her. It's about everyone you come into contact with.
Dont jump into a "relationship" when you arent ready, when you dont love him/her truthfully, when you still think yo'u are the more important. Dont fall in "love" if all you want is to receive concern and care from the other party. Dont fall in "love" if all you want is sex.
Be responsible, as a human enough who doesnt one to hurt the other party. You dont have to understand love first, you have to be ready.
till then;
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